Quite happy to keep deepest feelings and views to yourself you will guard your privacy. You learned to disconnect from your emotions when young and deny your needs, therefore will be uncomfortable with emotional closeness. While you have a need for attachment and love, you tend to feel trapped when things get too close. Someone secure or anxious has a basic wish to be close with someone avoidant that basic desire is missing. Choosing the right partner and learning to overcome your fears will help you move towards a secure attachment style. You are often drawn to avoidant individuals but would suit a relationship with a secure individual much more. This could be through hinting, manipulation or demands. You are more used to finding indirect methods of getting your needs met. As a result you tend to act out and say things you later regret. Your senses are often accurate, however you feel you are mostly the root cause of your partner's behavior and are prone to blaming yourself for problems.
You tend to be very sensitive to small fluctuations in your partner's moods and actions. You tend to be very helpful or charming towards others. You have deep-seated fears that you will be rejected, which makes you worried and overly clingy. You often fear that your partner does not wish to be as close as you would like them to be. Relationships tend to take up much of your thoughts and drain you of emotional energy. You love to be close to your partners and have the capacity for great intimacy. It's just how it is.įor this attachment style quiz, please select the answer you most closely relate to for each question. And, just for you to know - Usually, an attachment style is something that happens naturally and it's what you gravitate toward, not something that you can usually change. Research has shown that even just knowing about the attachment styles can help you in relationships, and knowing your own attachment style will do you the most good.
How do you feel when your partner goes out with his pals and leaves you at home? What about your friends: Do you want them there for you whenever you're going through something? Do you try and stay in touch with everyone who's ever held a big part of your heart? What about when you're in a relationship, do you have doubts on how strong your love is and worry they may leave you at any moment? Have you ever wondered what your attachment style is? When you're in a relationship (with anyone, really), you're likely to fall into one of the major attachment style categories: secure, anxious, avoidant or fearful-avoidant.
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